Paradoxically, most of the people that will shape you are the people who appear to disagree with you. I tell you that you need them. If you are waiting to be loved and accepted by ALL before you start living, you may probably wait till your 7th incarnation. Live life amidst oppositions, tests and trials of life. DO life as life do you; if you can, do more to life. That is how to win in life and extract the maximum breath from your being.